Day One: Your Brilliant Self
I am back again. I would like to continue my posts with day one. I am sorry for the delay. I had to finish a quite large database for my work and it took me four days. One of the rules which I will intorduce here is: if you do something do that completly or leave it. So I did everything to get my database done. We will speak later about this principle.
Now let me start with day one. Did you know that you are brilliant? I am sure you know but maybe you have forgotten about that fact. So just let me remind you that you are brilliant.
As a child you are born as unique human being and that fact is not changing duing whole period of your life. I am sure you have some skills, which lets you do things much better than any other person on this planet. No, you would replay, the whole day I am watching TV Talk Shows – God I am desperate. Ok Think about this: in that case you are best TV Talk Show watcher on the earth. Consider how many people out there can tell you all the content of US or whatever country talk shows in details? I told you you are unique
This is a bit to make you smile. But I am absolutely serious about your skills. There is nothing you cannot achieve if you wish that. Only thing you need is motivation and this motivation comes with the understanding that you are really, really brilliant.
Look back in your childood: remember you believed that you could do anyting? Remember you were stronger than any Superman or Spiderman out there? Remember doing crazy things which actually worked out? Why is that gone? Only reson for that is your disbelief in yourself. Go back and remember the time you did something good, you have mastered something. How is the feeling? I always feel great while remembering such moments and I am sure you will experience the same sensation.
The disbelief comes with your age and with your integration in society. Society tries to make of you something average. It does not need you to be brilliant. How many times have you heard things like: you cannot do this, you cannot achieve that, things will go wrong, you are so bad in this and in that. How many times? I am hearing that everyday. Actually I was hearing that everyday, Now people have stopped telling me that as frequently as they did and when I hear something like I ignore or respond: sure, I can, I am very good for that. And that is not a lie: When I look back there is no single thing I planned and it did not work out. Well maybe there were some big mistakes but at the end I was victorious!
So just let me tell you: you only fail because of your disbelief you can achieve something – that is only reason of your failure.
I suggest to make the purpose of your day thinking about what I just told you. Think back in your life and imagine moments of your greatness. How good do you feel? Take this feeling in your present and let it guide you to your future.
Getting back this feeling, understanding that you are brilliant is the core of your success. Others will believe in you only when you believe in yourself. That is all.
Just work on that and learn to think positively. But this will come next.
You are brilliant and no one is best in doing what are you doing, just remember that. See you!